Jing's 静思

Anywhere is a new beginning marking a tough ending.
Anywhere is a piece of memory, loving and laughing.
Anywhere is a cozy lodge in my heart, where you're forever residing.
Anywhere is an entrance to a new journey that I'll have to be embarking.

 

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YouTube - Enya - Anywhere is
 

If it started wrong, can it ever end right?
Is ending necessary?
Sometimes, irrationally, you may prefer keeping on the wrong track knowing it may lead to a crash to swerving into an unknown alternative lane. Is that pure inertia? Or are you addicted to the old way of living?

When love has to be terminated, would you choose to be occupied by emptiness or hurt? Either way, nobody's gonna heal your blistered foot; either way, tears that had been shed on the back of your ear would always remember the love and joy that had once belonged to us. You and I.

The fishes will earnestly watch each other swimming in the stream, free and safe.
Flowers may not have faded; but the season is over.

Jenny跟“ ”终于在一起了。 “ ”同学见了家长， 大事似乎已定。
这其中的波折、斗争、挣扎……我大概也知道一点。
哪段感情没有过跌宕起伏？没有过彷徨犹豫？作为我最好的朋友之一，看到Jenny终于找到幸福的归属，我高兴得差不多热泪盈眶了。还以为我俩会一起孤独终老相依为伴的，甚至说过我们老了要一起去西藏，离天最近的地方。现在，剩下我一个人在自由的风中飞翔，当我经过你的时候，请让我看到你是幸福的。

Jenny，我祝福你！

When something's fading, at least it is gradual and you can be mentally prepared for it.
When something's failing, the avalanche leaves no time for you to ration. Even if you are the lucky one who manages to run away, you will have to restart, from the very foot of the mountain again.
Good luck, climber! 

Do people fall in love and become obsessed with each other?
Do people get obsessed with each other because they can't be in love?
Is obsession driven by love, or desire?

Partially in response to the above questions, here is the term called "Limerence" that Eric, my buddy, found on wiki.
" Limerence refers to an involuntary cognitive and emotional state of intense romantic desire for another person. The term was coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov to describe the ultimate, near-obsessional form of romantic love. Limerence can often be what is meant when one expresses having intense feelings of attachment and preoccupations with the love object (love is being objectified here--me). Limerence is characterized by intrusive thinking and pronounced sensitivity to external events that reflect the disposition of the limerent object towards the individual. It can be experienced as intense joy or as extreme despair, depending on whether the feelings are reciprocated."

So there is a term for "desire to be loved", which may shine some lights on how we perceive hopes of love. At one point or another in life, we all may be going through the dark and seemingly never-ending tunnel of limerence and wondering worriedly: where is my way out!

life is just the past tense of death....

i just made this up out of the blue and it made my dear friend Eric concern.
but i thought it was a logical (semantically, at least) sentence.

为什么明知道没有可能还会去做
只为那微薄的希望

有朝一日希望幻灭
何处寻道理？